I honestly don't want to try anymore... But I'm also confused by the fact that he says he does, then doesn't.

I guess I felt like one of us had to take a stand against all of this back & forth BS we keep putting us & our children through... I don't think we'll ever be able to repair this devistation.

WCW - I started to lose interest in my H after I went back to work from the birth of my son. We had discussed me staying home before & during my pregnany & then he flipped on me after the birth. He's very "money hungry" my term....

He promised to hire help for the home cleaning, etc b/c we both bring in very good salaries, but failed to do so after I went to work b/c he didn't want someone in our house, etc...??..

It's long standing the issues prior to the S, but I just want to put all that behind us to at least have a relationship for the kids. There are 5 of them to worry about....

Thanks WCW for all your insight : )


Distracted 1978
Me - 30
H - 28
D - 13, 8, 7
S - 21 months
SS - 6

My Bomb to him 10/26/2008
Separated (physically) 03/15/2009
Filed for legal separation 10/01/2009

No longer distracted!