how do I ask her about affair

[sgctxok]

It's great that you're asking the question here first.

Read the chapter in DR (It's at the top of this forum)

Don't go with your 'feelings'....they will lead you to being reactive. If the answer is yes, and then you ask her to consider you as a better option, this conversation may spiral downward very quickly with you 'appearing' desperate. Don't let that happen. If you decide to do that, play it out here first. Be ready for your response.

What are your wife's complaints about you and your marriage?



Ask around here for who has had success with this conversation....in light of staying together and rebuilding their relationship.