She's a desperate woman and right now, I would classify her as a "stalker". Stalkers pull this kind of crap or convince others to do their dirty deeds.
Check your yard out, walk around your car and keey your eyes and ears open. I'm not saying this to scare you, but when they are on the edge like she's appearing, she could do anything. When they are this desperate, sanity goes by the way side.
A gated community would be a nice safety net for you and your son. I agree about your inlaws living next door, but who is to say that she doesn't walk around your place at late hours. I sure she must do drive bys as well. She's a complete nut job. Just be careful.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
