Thanks SD for the link. suppose it went one ear and out the other last night. I did just the opposite.

On the way home from work BFF called to tell me her LBH has made charges on there card to singles.com.

Well, that sent me into a tail spin. Again, I just feel like I must not have gotten the memo on the cheating aspect of marraige. When I got home, I tried to explain how I felt to my FWAH, but he doesn't seem to be able to empathize. He tries but he says it just pisses him off. That and the fact that he slips back into this "I'm not going to even mention this" way of communitcating, my mind starts to wonder if this is ever going to work.

I know I have to put that out of my mind, live for me and take one day at a time but I need to figure out what I can and can't live with.


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