It's not odd at all. The reason that I say this is that he was "snatched" back to reality three years ago and never completed his journey back then. This time, it will be much longer and his behaviors will be a little worse than three years ago. It's now considered a "new" adventure for him. He started all over again w/her and the relationship is once again new for him.
If you truly want her to cease the calls, file a case against her. It's also called a form of identity theft if she is pretending to me you out there. It's a legitimate claim. If you don't do something about it, she may take it a step further and charge and/or or order things in your name w/the bill coming to you. I'm never surprised at the great lengths they will take to ensure their place w/the mlcer. Protect yourself, file the claim.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
