Almostdonebut..., I haven't posted to you before, but I have read your stich. I think you have a good chance to reunite with H. I do want to offer you this advice. 1. Let him be, he told you point blank, so let him come back. 2. Don't dwell on what happened or didn't happen with OW. If you want to make this work, you must wipe the slate clean. Don't throw things up in his face if you fight or argue. If you truly want your marriage to work, you must forget all that has happened and start new.