Hi D, Sorry about the crappy day last week. I agree with Trapt-Don't make it any easier for her to divorce you. Time is on your side, as far as your wife getting throught this MLC. Focus on what is working, focus on the good in each day... Just checking in ..
M44 H46 T21 Married 16y D14 D12 Bomb 12/08(EA), (PA/Separation)1/09 to 5/09 Home/MC 5/09 to 12/09 Leaves 12/09 Files for Divorce Divorce final 6/30/10.
Haven't been on for awhile (again). My mom has been up visiting from Florida for the past few weeks so I've been staying busy doing stuff with her and the kids.
Got some good news on the job front this week. Apparently they are having quite the difficult time without my expertise as they are moving me back to my previous position starting next week.
On the MLC front, not a whole lot going on. Confirmed that wife completed papers on 7/8. I have yet to be served.
Last week S11 told wife that he is no longer going to her place. He told her that she treats them like crap. That she doesn't talk to them or spend time with them. Wife is convinced he's going through a pre-pubescent phase.
One thing I had been struggling with and got a handle on is looking into the future and trying to guess what's going to happen. I'm back to going day by day because so many things can change from one day to the next.
That was causing me to spin and now I'm doing much better.
Oh yeah I also forgot to mention I've been in the middle of a Federal investigation as a witness involving my employer.
No kidding man, throw us a bone from time to time. LOL!
I'm glad your keeping busy and that's great news about the job man. Kick some @ss there.
I know it sucks having the papers over your head. Don't let it rattle you. I don't have to explain to you how loooong this is so I will just remind you.
Phase??? um yeah. It's called the one where he is old enough to see it all for himself. I'm sorry. This has to be tough for him. I would let her take ALL the responsiblity when it comes to making amends with her son. If he is calling her out on her BS, it may be a while though. He needs you man. Be there for him. Maybe do something special for him from time to time.
I'm glad you came out of hiding, it sounds like you have been busy. Yeah, that whole Fed thing, that has to be real fun.
Always remember you will never be given more than you can handle.
I'm doing really well. I am really enjoying my kids and they really enjoy being with me which is all I could want right now.
Football practice starts in 3 weeks so I'm getting things ready for that. S11 is working out with me so he's in halfway decent shape when practice starts.
First and foremost thanks for the birthday wishes.
Kids and I went swimming. Had an absolute blast. Got a text from wife wishing me happy birthday. Wasn't expecting anything so it was a nice surprise.
S11 told wife 2 weeks ago he no longer is going over there because he doesn't like the way he's treated. She told him it was bullcrap was convinced that he was going through a pre-pubescent phase. This past Friday, I dropped the girls off and he was in the car with me. As soon as we left I received the following text: "Please tell S11 I miss him and love him and I'm sorry he doesn't like me."
