First Piecing Thread

[Hope4us]

Thanks WDID. I appreciate it.

Got a question for anyone that wants to reply. Last night, W and I went to "our" bar/grill for dinner. Had a really nice time. We talked some more about the two from W's work that are having an A. At one point, I said to W "do people who are having "A's" in a situation like this think that word isn't going to get around?" W replied "they shouldn't". Wow.

Talked about a lot of stuff. At one point, W makes a comment about our house (she loves it and the location) and then says "if we're still here", meaning if I haven't been transferred yet, that she'd like to get a pool.

Just a lot of that kind of stuff. When we got home I got a lot of nice hugs, some kisses, etc. A couple times I tried to break a hug and she grabbed on tighter. Nice.

But here's the question. Yesterday, one of the guys that works for me told me that when he transferred here in Jan 08 that another friend of his that works at W's location said to him "are H4U and W having trouble?" The guy who works for me said "yeah, why?" The other guy says "there's a rumor going around up here that H4U's W is having an A with a contractor".

I always figured that was the case, that word would get around. A POSOM like him wouldn't be able to keep his mouth shut. And when W would tell me that some guy who she'd never met would stop by her office to "see who she was" it seemed to me pretty obvious that word was getting around and everyone wanted to know who the POS was bangin.

So, the question is, should I tell W this? Or do you think she's heard it already from other people and I should not go there? Part of me wants to tell her just to put some more (as Puppy would say), "consequences" out there. But another part of me thinks if that rumor was going around, she's bound to have heard it, and with the way it seems she's beginning to come to grips with it and slowly, oh so slowly, open up to me, that it would be best to not mention it to her.

Opinions?