h never called, never came and son had left him a message in the morning.

this is highly unsual behavior for h, even in his mlc. he is very routine, always comes on a schedule, never waivered. if anything, he added a day and came more.

now, all out the window. he cant commit to days. even the night before, doesnt know if he can come the next day. we are basically down to once a week, and he isnt even working.

or so he says.

what does anyone think?

is it a strange job that is not a routine schedule that he is hiding?

or, is it the ow? ever since she has been acting out and calling and harassing me, his schedule has become noncommital.

she is not new to our lives, so what is up?


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09