In the long run of things, you are probably doing the right thing. Detachment for you is important right now. When you are able to do that, then you will be better prepared to think more clearly. Hope you enjoy your visit. Bet it will do you good to be with your mother. I don't know what I would do without mine. After I was grown, I learned that she is my BFF!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
