So out of all the things your H is not happy with you about, what ones at the top of the list do you think are most valid, you are able to change and will have most impact on him in a positive way? You have listed previously the way you have been speaking to him, LRT and DB have addressed that, you have been working on the horizontal dancing issue. Do you understand his issues there and feel able to address them? And what other issues are you tackling?
He WILL be watching you and you will be filling back up his credit tank. Once his anger is under control or he is able to peek out through the fog at those sort of things he will come to the fore front.
So have you both worked through the affair? You seem to have been able to have put it in the past in that you don't mention it a lot? Has he been able to forgive himself so he can move on and does he get your position on it? And is he stuck in the same place as just before he had the affair or has he moved through that place at least?
