Something about other peoples sitches that make it oh so much easier to waffle on in!!
You are doing better than me in other areas, though. Your H seems further away from walking out the door, and you seem further along the friendship path with him being able to relax around you.
You seem to have the GALing very very under control! Giving your H space right now seems to be working well to consolidate the positive changes you have achieved through DBing in the last 6 months.
So, some time along the track, you will be due for another R talk. Have you got your position ready for when that happens? Do you know how you are going to play it? I am thinking about that for my sitch now.
