Kevin, re-read "as-iffing". I had to. As I now understand it, it pertains more to immediate outcome of imminent action, as opposed to long-range, big-picture goals. To me, it means to do what you're about to do, say what you're about to say, etc., as if it is going to have the exact, pitch-perfect outcome as you intend and envision and it is going to be perceived/received that way. This way you will act, say, do it more confidently, effectively, positively.
IMO
Gardener - thats a cracking thought. I was always pre-planning every little details and the result was anything I said just came over as false. I packed in that sort of thing which has resulted in the following...
I had lots more time to think about other things. Any comms now come across as real and normal (and they are)
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