So are you saying packing all of her things up and kicking her out will gain me respect? How do you figure? How does one go about packing up her stuff and kicking her out? What if she refuses? What if she attempts to take the kids with her? Which side is the law going to be on?
I offerred to get a sitter and take her to the movies tonight and she agreed. We actually held hands, talked and laughed a little. I sometimes see a spark from her.
She still doesn't respond to hugs or kisses from me, so I just stopped trying...it just feels so strange not too.
Oddly enough she asked me to plan a family vacation.
If there is OM, why wouldn't she just leave me for this person?
