lost.one I think the apartment might be a good decision too, if you can afford it. At least it was for me and my W. My W said similar things to me (I don’t love you, I don't want to be with you, I’m done) and I just needed to get away from that. It was really hard for me to start thinking positively about myself in the doom and gloom of being at home with her scrutiny. I want to be with her still, but I realize that we need this separation right now so that we can both get well. Until I start respecting myself and get the self confidence back that I had when she met me, she's not going to change her mind. Maybe your R is the same. Definitely don't look at moving out as you giving up...maybe look at it as just pulling back to a more defensive position.
