Fire's burning out...just smoldering

[blindsided1]

Stupid me for still looking at that dumb FB page. He had a convo with an ex-gf where he told her that I wasn't a good woman, but now he has a good woman and 4 great kids. I feel like crap. I AM A GOOD WOMAN. And, I want to be validated. Part of me thinks he says that crap to make everyone think he has changed and isn't a sh!t anymore. He goes on and on about how he has changed and she even talks about how awful he was to her and all the girls he has been with but, now, she "sees how he has grown up and changed and has everything he ever wanted". I also have told myself he is saying that, not only to validate that he has made the right choice, but also in case OW looks at his FB. I am SO SURE she does.

My stupid a$$ fault. When will I learn that it only causes me grief to look?