I see detachment as all the things you are doing gal and not focusing on the situation finding hobbies, friends new activities, mediate work out volunteer stay active and busy practice being cordial with R with H not snooping into their lives ect just getting on with your life and practicing letting go of ALL control of others only focusing on things in my hoop Intensive is probably a great idea..You have nothing to lose at this point whenever you bring it up I would try to be as nuetral as possible like maybe this could help us Be friends so when we seperate we will have no bad feeling? ect(even though we know thats not really what this intensive is for) sometimes I feel that they are so closed to any thought of fixing M,,,they are so past that already good luck with it peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
