That old saying about feeling lonely in a room full of people is what you are experiencing. There are probably others there who think everyone appears to be single. It's not much fun being at a party by yourself, is it? Do the best that you can and remember that you are becoming a more attractive person and will be more "interesting" when all is said and done. But.....(have to throw this in for safe measure).....be leary of those wild women who would love to take you home with them.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!