how much more difficult it is for a marriage to be saved when it's a woman that is in a romantic affair. Most responses to that thread are that it takes a woman a LONG time to get over those feelings for OM because she was sure she was "in love with her soulmate". And even if she understands OM was just using her, they're still powerful feelings and it just is going to take time.
THis is so true. You are a smart man to take this seriously. Also, extremely patient. You are quite a catch, and your W is beginning to realize it I think.
