Thats good that she was able to witness it. But don't be doing it to show her or you might be disapointed when you don't see anything. Also, don't be taking temperature checks so quickly. Give it time. Remember, patience.
When it says act as if, it means act as if they are not coming back so that you can work on yourself and be happy with yourself. The less you are dependent on her for your happiness, the more she will notice. And she will notice. It needs to be genuine coming from you though. So don't do it to impress her. Do it to change who you are for you. Let the rest fall into place.
What kind of crackberry did you get? I have a storm that I got after my W announced the bomb to me. They are cool phones.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...