So it begins to get over my wife

[sandi2]

Hi Josh,

Been catching up on your thread. See where you are at last beginning to feel the detachment kicking in. But remember that it was only the other night you were saying:

i wanted her to stay tuesday nite so bad. i really did.

So, I'm not offering anything more than what the others have said except maybe to say don't rely upon too much from your own emotions. Emotions cannot always be trusted. Believe me....as a WAW...I know. Dr. James Dobson wrote a book about not always trusting one's emotions and man, was he right about that! What I'm saying is that I truly hope you are detaching enough to make wise decisions and do what is best and not b/c she hooked you into sleeping with her or something like that. I know you have been kind of up & down with this thing and maybe you just needed to get a belly-full before you had enough. But, something tells me it isn't over. When she comes Wednesday (but I doubt she waits that long), don't be surpirsed when you have all those old familiar feelings come rushing back in.

It's kind of like having a huge meal and afterwards deciding that you have the will power to go on a diet. It's easy right at that moment, b/c you aren't hungry. However, when you see a beautiful meal laid before you, it is very tempting. Not to say you've had a "meal" lately, but you may realize just how hungry you really are when she shows up. So, be careful and think DBing. Be sure about what you want to do before you make any "final" decisions.