Maybe she just likes the attention not the reality of M and life with kids. Seems like a symptom to me. I used to fantasize about other men a lot. I never did anything about it and never would have but flirting, getting attention, that felt good.
Most likely my sitch. W even admits she wants to be a family but doesn't want to be married. Like she wants an escape.
Unfortunately, I don't know the Rx. She doesn't want my attention and I'm not going to give it to her.
"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh
