I am an attractive, healthy, vibrant, fun woman, a good steward, and a good mother. I work my @ss off to keep a good home for our family, spend the evenings working with the kids and taking care of things around here so he can build up his career. We have a great family life together...
And yet he is angry and I get no credit for anything I do. Sex is the only way I get his full attention.
Why shouldn't I get all giggly hot and heavy with this guy who sees me as a woman, not "mommy" or "wife".
How dare he have so little regard for me!! [/SilentRanting]
Perhaps?
Thinker ~~~ you actually do a great job of seeing her side of it. You've volunteered this on here many times. And that's a HUGE deal - so good on you.
And your W is doing the WRONG thing. God knows I hate that texting crap that folks do and say it's no big deal. Grrrrrr. She is confused and needy and looking for something that she has missed from you. Don't lose sight at this point. Something was missing for her - as FABULOUS as you are and have been. Would be worth it to know what that is.
Me45 H46 T25 M22 S21 & 19 D13 Separated and filed 8/08 Moved home 11/08
