Originally Posted By: Kettricken
I'm always a bit bemused by the "Is this really her/him?" statements. Clearly, right now, yes, it is her, because she's doing it. No duress.
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LOL. OK, you called me on questioning the obvious, and are correct in that was not really the question I was asking myself.

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Really, the only question you can answer is, given that this behavior is clearly a *facet* of Who She Is right now, am I willing to endure it in hopes that it passes, and if so, for how long?


Bingo, Correct, Dead on -- This is the question I am asking.

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FWIW, I don't think your anger is misplaced. Even if you take the ego out of it.... emotionally, she is feeding your family's food to a stranger. I don't know many people, male or female, who would take kindly to that.


Thanks. I am allowing myself to be angry, but avoiding her right now so I don't let it out until I know how I want to respond and can do so in the correct emotional state.


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