Sounds to me like your H loves you, you were just annoying the he!! out of him! I say this because I can relate....I was pretty annoying before the bomb too.
Sometimes I hope too, that he'll wake up and see that I've been standing here, being strong and solid and patient - instead of annoying the hell out of him like I was before - and remind himself of what a kick-a$$ partner I am.
And if not, oh well...
Me - 30, H - 32 T - 10, M - 6, D - 1 DD#1 - 4, DD#2 - 2 on/off OW 4/09 - sometime Summer 2010 (Told me about OW 4/10) Separated 6/11/09, divorced 8/4/10, trying again 9/2011