Thinker, nobody has the power to define who you/we are. Apsolutely no one!!!Dont give away that control over you... Just as Coach says, dont feed that snake. I've worked for months with my C on "I wasnt/am not good enough". I was carrying childhood baggage from my mom always telling me "I was meant to be better but ... I was failing" (she was trying to motivate me) .
I insisted for months in therapy "no, you dont understand, I REALLY wasnt good enough...". She finally got to me when she said :maybe you are not good enough for him meaning you (both) are not good enough together, but you, as Maria are perfect, remember that". For some reason that clicked. You now what? She was right. K/M
