Hey Almost, I think I am more hardheaded than amazing, but thanks for your kind words. It is pretty simple for me. I made a promise before God. I dont break my promises. It's how I live my life.
Listen, have I made mistakes in my marriage, you bet. I can honestly say, never consciously or with malicious intent. I was very, very sick. I suffered from severe depression and anxiety. Not an excuse, I dont really believe in those. But, I did the best I could with the tools I had at the time. Truth be told, it was very difficult on my h.
Did it give him the right to have an affair and put us in financial ruin? Absolutely not. He did things that didnt help me or our us during the marriage. But, I believe he did the best he could with the tools he had, too. Then he got lost.
Anyway, I think Mach (hope he doesnt mind) meant, that Kelly's h may have been upset at the time, but him bringing it up as the cause of some of the problems is what MLCers do. They bring up past things, rewrite history, blame their spouses. It's part of the script.
