Hey you all are welcome to take up this thread as much as you want...no worries all are welcome.....
As far as the trip, I completely agree it was blah blah blah. HOWEVER, I do believe he truly believes he has a right to be upset about it. Something her going on that particular trip with that particular group did not make him happy. I agree, she probably should have gone and I hope she had a freaking blast! But whether we understand his anger and whether we can really say yes or no to 'is his anger justified?' doesn't really matter, I think. I believe it really bugged him and has for a long time. So let him let it go and by apologizing, but not for going on the trip, for the fact he had bad feelings about it.
Be honest, don't we all have something our spouse did that we know we shouldn't be mad, irritated or upset but for some reason, we just are? And wouldn't it be nice for them to acknowledge it with an apology.....maybe not for doing whatever but for the hurt feelings it caused in us?
I do and I apologized. Went a long way I think.
But again, this is everyone's call for themselves.
