~20/day. It's about half of her texting traffic. The rest is GF's, etc.
They are in bursts - 15 in a row, and then nothing for a while
When I blew up 2 days ago it was because I found them on her phone (have not been following the phone logs), and what I saw was (to me) ugly. It is sexual banter, with the OM being a heavy, aggressive pursuer, and her going along with it and responding.
She tried to explain it away with our C as "just flirting", but I know that OM does not see it that way - he's hunting.
She acknowledge in C that it was inappropriate and that she would not even consider it if our R was good. (She tried to blame it on the state of our R, but I stopped her - "This is a choice you are making")
Last edited by Thinker; 07/17/0907:19 PM.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.
