I saw this article link posted on another thread about detaching, and it does a much better job of explaining it than I did, LOL!

http://www.livestrong.com/article/14712-developing-detachment/


Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!