You're welcome. Listen, all we can do is offer our opinions. Ultimately, it is up to you to decide what is best for you. If you feel better, that's great. I hope it turns out the way you hope.
I will tell you this, having been here a long time. If your h is in MLC, this is a long road. The very best thing you can do is to step back and let him walk it.
So, now that that is over and done with, you can continue working on you. Let her blow in the wind.