Trying to cope with H, IA/EA (was Newbie-1st post)

[Faith2010]

Puppy has a point Ashlee. If your H thinks you are "punishing" him by withholding sex.....then he'll sulk, pout, get mad, the whole nine yards.....however, if you let him know that you do not find him attractive.....well....that is another matter, entirely!

Thanks for pointing this out Sandi. I could tell this morning H was eluding to the fact that I was punishing him and I was trying to get across the point that it was not a punishment.