Trying to cope with H, IA/EA (was Newbie-1st post)

[Faith2010]

It does seem everytime I either enforce a boundary or do something out of the ordinary (such as leaving last Friday), it triggers H to react.

I think in my mind, I will not tolerate OW anymore. How can there be a M if there is a third person involved? There can't be.

I feel I've made tremendous strides from where I was this time last Friday. I don't want to get excited about the change in myself because I know how easy it is to be knocked down again.