I also found a text from last Friday morning from H to OW. It said "good morning babe!" and ended with "MUAH". (I've been told that MUAH means a kiss)
He's playing me. No doubt in my mind. Here I am working to save our M and now I'm having doubts he'll ever be able to be the H I need.
Ashlee,
Last Thursday evening was when you enforced your boundary with him about not contacting her from in front of you in your own home, and he left. I'm sure by Friday morning he was very angry with you, and feeling all full of entitlement and justification.
I wouldn't put too much into the timing or content of that text, is what I'm saying. I'd look more at what he's done SINCE then, not that it's great either -- it's more waffling -- but it's not so awful. It looks like he MAY be trying to avoid her (which also may be why he's so horny).
