The next time he says that (and this guy's a broken record -- he WILL), say: "If it's pushing this 'you' you've become lately further away, then the further the better. Who you are lately isn't very attractive to me, to be honest with you. If you ever want to grow the hell up and get SERIOUS, and try to see if we can build a NEW relationship together, then we can talk."
I LOVE IT! I'm gonna memorize it cause you are correct, he will bring it up again.
Me: 39 H: 39 S: 15 M: 18 years Bomb: 6/3/09 H moved out: 10/15/09 H moved back:5/30/10