H started getting frisky this morning. I said no. H asks why not. I eluded to our conversations yesterday and said there would be a lot more to talk about and work on if we were going to try to make our M work. Are you guys ready for this one? H asked me if I thought withholding sex was going to do any good because if I had sex with him, it would help him feel closer to me and by NOT having sex wtih him, I am pushing him further away! WTF?
The next time he says that (and this guy's a broken record -- he WILL), say: "If it's pushing this 'you' you've become lately further away, then the further the better. Who you are lately isn't very attractive to me, to be honest with you. If you ever want to grow the hell up and get SERIOUS, and try to see if we can build a NEW relationship together, then we can talk."
