I will be okay, it just happens from time to time. Thanks for asking.
About this weekend......how close are you and his son? If his son thinks the world of you, then you would not want to hurt his feelings by "running out" when he comes home for a visit. Also, if you leave, then your H may take advantage of that and tell his son that you are the "bad guy" in the stitch. Even if he sank low enough to take son to meet the skank, your son would see you at home being the wife and his father as the cheating H. If your H doesn't have any more sense than to tell his son that he's interested in OW, then I would not feel embarrassed to sit at home all weekend and show step-son you are not the one running around. But, you know the R between you and step-son and if it is not good, then don't stay at home and be under that much stress......go stay with your mother and tell H that you are giving him "quality time" with his son....
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
