For whomever it may help or whatever it is worth, I failed my ex-h on every item on that list I wrote. I have since discovered and understood this, and now understand why he lost his love for me. Or rather, I squashed his love.
This time (getting married again soon) I follow this list to a T and I will never misunderstand his needs the way I have in the past.
My fiance loves how I love him, how I understand his needs, and responds in kind by meeting mine.
So much wish I could go back in time and talk to my younger self and say "you know NOTHING about men and keeping a man happy....LEARN".
