Just Keep Livin' #3

[JKL2009]

Thanks for your post and your view on things. I think the difference here is that I have always been faithful to my W. I have had several talks in the past few months where I did lay it out how badly I want to make the marriage different and better. She has heard me say I want to stay and want to make changes to improve me and our marriage. When I have had these talks, she listens but says clearly she is done, it is too late, I had my chance, too much has happened for too long, why should she be the one to give in now, etc.

So I just need to live my changes, and what happens with her happens. She will either notice and change her mind, or will we go on in life in different directions.