Lots of good stuff here a/k....but I thought of something I wanted to pass on before work today. Remember Alec Baldwin's meltdown on the voice mail he left his daughter? his career was NOT helped and he barely recovered. He is a talented actor with a lot of friends but it took its' toll and his tone has changed big time.
Soooo I was just wondering about you and these voicemails your "soon to be famous" h leaves you, or his notes, or his actions OR his inactions, sins of commission and omission, so to speak...I was just wondering what a wonderful Public Relations bonanza he'd be in People magazine (I MEAN WHEN HE GETS FAMOUS OF COURSE....OF COURSE!!!)
And if your h gets to the point where he believes he could be famous, you may have a weapon up your sleeve you forgot about. NOT saying you have to use it, but I sure would ask him what "his public" or "his clients" would think/feel about him, OR THEIR FANS ABOUT THEM-- IF IT got out that their manager/hero/agent/ assistant-or whatever he calls himself now--is a jerk from jerktown, leaving his wife and kids w/o money, while mooching off rich people and forgetting to pay his bills AND forgetting to actually file for div --BUT going ahead and dating and whatever....but wait, "sources say he LOVES HIS KIDS" and by saying it, that makes him a good father of course... Look, celebs can and often are stupid, but not as much as you or he may think. When it comes to leaving kids and guys leaving "starter wives" as your h has done, many in the industry see right through it. THey don't trust contracts with people like that. Trust matters.
Keep track of these "not soloving HATE messages" and or journal about them, with dates. That will help you a lot with the kids in court, it's NOT DIRTY,or below the belt; it's honest unlike him, and besides, aren't you tired of feeling impotent? Finally, you may have a weapon and it's HIS MOUTH and there is sweet irony in that.
On that happy note....gotta get some sleep. No, I'm not blaming your h for my insomnia (the start of it yes, but not the constant waking up. I did get some writing done and now have to go "sell" it. Talk to you soon. Hope my idea is as smart as it sounds to me now, as I'm sleep deprived. Last night I thought it was "damn smart!"... (( j ))
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