JKL,
Your wife reminds me of myself a lot. In one of your posts you said wife had brought up OWI..what was the OWI?

My husband has had a PA and EA over the last year and a half. I keep lots of things inside until I am about to explode, just like your wife.

I am conflicting many people here but I think a good heart to heart with your wife is much needed. I would so appreciate my husband taking me out to a romantic place and talking to me about what he wants for our future. I am very stubborn and if H is not letting me know he wants to stay with me, he must be wanting to be without me. I think this is your wife's mindset.

It is hard for me to 'appreciate' changes he has made on himself because I view them as improving himself so he can find one more woman to cheat on me with. He needs to be making changes that improve our marriage.

M:38
H:42
T:20 M:19
D:18 S:17
MLC: Sometime in 2007
OW Bomb 1: 12/28/07
OW Online relationship 2: Spring 2009
Told him I wanted D: May 10, 2009
D final: 07/09/11