Hey?!? Who Locked Up My Mojo?

[Thinker]

... I am probably one of those women with "issues". Because I blossom when my man treats me like a woman and "die" when I am "left alone" (Stonsy" worst things a man can do to his woman").

Hi Kalni,

Just responding to say this struck a note with me. I see this in my wife - completely. Looking back I see that what I did was leave her alone - did my own thing.

Now I can clearly see what she wants, what she responds to, etc, but now we are locked in a different struggle. She wants very much to be pursued, and charmed etc - but not by me.