Thanks Puppy, your advice there was what enabled me to see that I should NOT leave the house at her request.
In this case, it was me that left the bed, not to punish her or anything, I just found at the time I was more comfortable. However, in the last few weeks, I have been much better in my attitude, GAL etc, and want to move back to my own bed, not because of her, but it's what I want to do.
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."