I do know that it is about me with the GAL stuff. Sometimes its hard not to fall back into old patterns, thus the need for the thread and the feedback.
I suppose dieting and exercise would be perceived to be a chore (by me at least) but I value the benefits, so I continue. I will admit that I have not been as aggressive with "doing my own thing" lately. I do need to find a class or something interesting.
Detaching....hmmmmmm....that word conjures up some bad feelings. It seems to fly in the face of the meaning of marriage to me. I do realize that its necessary but, it leaves me feeling like I am keeping a part of me from him, intentionally. I feel like the conflict with each other.
Does that make any sense?
Anyway, thanks for responding. I needed some feedback!
