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How bout telling him you will act like his W (thus taking care of his needs) when he starts acting like your H.


HA! Love it!

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Got a text from H a little bit go. It says "nobody loves me" with a sad face.

I have not responded. I assume I don't, right?


Right! That kind of immature behavior doesn't deserve a answer! Expect him to do about anything at this point, just to see if he can break you down. He's probably shocked that he can't get sex from you while he's seeing OW! So, I think he'll play on your sympathy or whatever he thinks it will take to get you to "give in". Be tough!


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!