I flew back Wednesday afternoon/evening. My other D who lives four hours away from here (bigger city where I flew out of, and left my car) picked me up and whisked me away to a concert. It was IL Divo, have any of you heard of them? I hadn't. They sing in Italian, and a little English. They were wonderful! They sang Unchained Melody in Italian, which was played right before I walked down the aisle when we got married. My D said we could leave if it bothered me, but I did OK. It was beautiful in Italian. There were lots of couples there. (sigh) Yesterday, after doing some shopping, and having lunch ( I actually can go in some place and eat alone now, something I couldn't do before) I headed home.
As most of you know who are following this thread, my H and I are still living in the same house. He is classic MLC, has said everything to the "T" in the MLC script, has ow, and filed seven months ago. I don't want D, but retained an attorney to protect myself. He doesn't have attorney, filed his own paperwork. My attorney heard from him once. He asked what was taking so long. She told him that she was waiting to hear back from him. When he filed, he wasn't very generous. He wants to let me keep my car ( which I paid for) and my laptop which he bought me for my birthday a few years ago. My attorney just laughed. She even said he is being mean, a typical man in a mid life crisis. Anyway no court date yet. I have turned in all my financial statements. I feel like he may be dragging his feet. I don't know. I'm sure skank is not happy. She by the way is fifteen years younger,married three times already, one xh cheated on her. Currently she is D. He used to be her boss when she was in his dept. He has high profile position and makes decent money. She's clinging to that. I was the bosses wife, and I was always kind to her whenever I stopped by the office. She always had a little cheschire grin on her face like she was up to something. WOW! She has herself an MLCer. I just need to remember, you reap what you sow. I am standing for my M, and hoping he can come out of this before D. I would say it started several years ago when he got the Harley that I loved also. The Joy of the Lord is my Strength. That's how I'm pushing through this. And, that he isn't who I married. I don't know who he is. I wrote to him once, " Wait until the H I knew, loved and married, and who loved and married me finds out what you've done to his wife."
Anyway... When I got home last night, he greeted me nicely. He asked me how my trip was, and if he could help me get my things out of the car. I just said I had a fantastic time! ( he still doesn't know where I've been). I politely told him I could get my own things out of the car. I guess I wanted to show him that I could do it on my own. Maybe wrong move there, but it made me feel better. I also found a note on the counter that said " Welcome home MJ, H " He said his son, who is 28, my stepson, is coming this weekend for a few days. He lives a few states away, and doesn't get here much. I'm wondering if I should go away while he's here. Go visit my mom. I would hate to watch them go in and out, maybe even including skank in with them. They could even include her D who just graduated HS. Oh lovely! I need to quit thinking like this, it makes me crazy. Focus, focus,focus!!
