Patience is hard, I have been doing that for months now. I think I have been doing it for so long now that it is becoming easier! (not) Where my M is concerned, I can wait for as long as it takes. True, I have times where I am frustrated as hell, emotionally and sexually. But keeping my mind on the hopeful outcome keeps me going. Thanks to this board, I think I have gotten to the point where I know I will be OK no matter what happens. I still want my marriage back. I still want my wife back. But if it doesn't happen, I have become a different, better person for it.


Me-40
W-41
Together-10
M-8
S-6
S-4
Bomb 5/08
Bomb 10/08
Thought things were better, was wrong.
Still living together
Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.