Waiting More Than a Dozen Years

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First, congratulations on your unpcoming wedding.

Second, what do you consider "stellar feedback and advice" and by what measure or yardstick do you make that assessment?

Third, I disagree that I keep "spouting the same information to them" or to you. If you read what I wrote, my first post deals with my current marriage, the second post deals mostly with my first marriage and the other two posts of substance fill in some of the missing points. Over a period that really spans from 1980 to present.

While I recognize that it is only a story (and a terribly incomplete one at that just as a map is a very incomplete representation of geography), do you or anyone think that they could give stellar feedback and advice if I pared it down to "I have not had sex with my wife for more than 12 years." and just left it at that?

And finally, to complete this Reader's Digest version of a reply, I am writing to have the words written down, to create a version of an occurring world to see if I have really missed something and to see if there is something "outside of the box" that I have not considered. In a medium such as this, how we occur for each other is only given through the words we write and those we read. We are literally our word.

More later, now that I'm back for a few days.