You'll need to make a parenting plan with her based on daily phone calls at specific times. I know, it's not easy to talk to small children on the phone. Heck, I have a 14 year old that is impossible to talk to on the phone!
Example:
1)Schedule a daily phone call to talk to each child just after their dinner time, just before bath time. That way your phone call doesn't disrupt their sleep schedule.
2)Make arrangements to fly to GA once a month. Schedule that weekend and make it happen, no matter what. Book a hotel room if you don't have friends you could stay with there.
Show that you want an active role in your children's lives regardless of where she has taken them.
I know you don't want to push things legally right now because you are hoping to repair your M, however these are your children and they come first. She has to understand that. She can't want to cut you out of their lives. If she does, you will need to take immediate legal action to protect your R with your children. It's harsh, but it's the way it is.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!