As long as you are working toward being unstuck in the future, that is all that matters.
It sounds like you have looked at all the possibilities and outcomes so that is good. The emotion attached to the R can overwhelm you in an instant if the WAS rears their head and musters hope that the R can be rebuilt. Since you have already explored your feelings on the 'big picture' issues, you should be safe from that.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!